Monday, November 5, 2012

The Right Time For Marriage




The right time for marriage depends on each individual, and unique in each situation.
A strong foundation is needed for a successful marriage and should be established before one starts courting a potential life mate. Our spiritual life is the number one factor because in it comes everything. Our personal relationship with God that comes only through trusting and obeying the Lord Jesus Christ. It incllude more than just having to go to church every Sunday or having a Bible study.
We must have to fully understand in our heart what is God`s view of marriage before getting into it. We must have to know what the Bible says about love, commitment sexual relations, rule of the husband and wife, and His expectation of us.
A prospective married couple make sure that they know each other well. They should know each others view on things such as marriage, finances, in laws, child rearing, discipline, duties of each, and level of each spiritual maturity.
Marriage is not only a commitment, but a covenant. A covenant with God. A promise that in richer and poorer, in sickness and in health, you will be together. A promise not only for each, for the people who witness, but a promise with God. This means that every marriage should endure every circumstance. Wether your partner is boring, sick or what. Marriage should never be entered into with the idea that divorce is an option- not even as the last straw. Because when divorce entered the situation, this means that you`re doubting the ability of God to do everything possible. While in the Bible it said that in God, every thing is possible.


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